Handling Grief
Communication strategies by the coach, fellow athletes, families and friends will help an athlete handle grief or disappointment. Listen to what the athlete says and why he/she may be experiencing the grief. Offer positive switches — positive comment — correction — positive comment to take the athlete's attention away from his/her disappointment. Again, the athlete's effort, attitude and preparation should be emphasized, not the result of the competition.
It is important not to discount feelings of disappointment. It is appropriate to be disappointed when we lose a game or match. The challenge of the coach is to redirect that disappointment into a renewed commitment to training for the next competition or season.
Becoming obsessed with losing is not a healthy or natural reaction for anyone. If this occurs, the coach should contact a guardian if there is one or the local Special Olympics coordinator.
